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Baby Dom/me/mx Bootcamp

Want to learn how to be a Dominatrix? Our famed bootcamp is now online! Over the course of 8 weeks you will harness the power of our personas, tie up our branding, and give our communication skills a big old enema.

Designed to be taken weekly, but you can always binge it straight through.

Side hustle, full time gig, or a life-long dream, there’s always room for more in our 7DOD family.

Format

Online
Course

Duration

8 modules
16 hours

Price

$600

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Featured Guests

Empress Wu

Mia Darque

Oran Julius

In addition to the Headmistresses of 7DOD, hear from our featured guest instructors in Weeks 2, 6, & 7.

We award TWO scholarships for BDBC every quarter.

What our Students have said:

Maybe you know how to wield a flogger, but now it’s time to whip your soft skills into shape.

Ever wonder how to get exactly the clients you want and feel good about seeing? Maybe you're stumped with the admin side of things, and wonder how the Pros get it all done? Feel like you're just barely treading water financially or emotionally between sessions? This bootcamp is jam packed with lessons, tricks, and heartfelt stories from seasoned professionals who have made BDSM a sustainable career.

Lifetime access to 8 weeks of guided training
A PDF of our BDBC Workbook (170+ pages)
Weekly homework assignments
Weekly reflection questions + guided journaling exercises
Access to the BDBC Alumni forum to connect with other Dom/me/mx's all over the world!
The confidence, community, and information needed to start taking matters into your own hands.

Overview

What we cover in
this course

FOSTA/SESTA

A speed overview of the shortcomings this industry has faced over the years, laws influencing and affecting the livelihood and how to understand the current climate when planning for your future.

What you really need to "make it"

Hint hint: it's not the most extensive wardrobe or a brand that is centered in luxury. We'll highlight a variance of industry professionals who work and help you make sense of where to put your time, effort and money.

Understanding your power

Domming isn't all demands and obedience, consider this your finishing school of being professionally dominant, personally. Domination isn't an entirely different world, but your approach willl be different (in a good way.)

House vs Independent

The landscape is a-changing, but even with that, which model is right for you and what can you expect going each route. Here we'll discuss not only the benefits and drawbacks to each model, but how you can use each to your advantage.

What’s in a name

Your name (and possibly your honorific) is one of the first things they'll see that represents YOU. How to make sure you stand out from the pack while also giving yourself room to change and grow.

Face in & face out

Whether or not to show your face in your ads or in your online work is a personal choice only you can make. we talk about the pros and cons of each choice, as well as cover some overlooked risks.

Finding your niche & online persona

A niche can set you apart from others in the business, getting very specialized can help your career but it can also hinder it. We'll cover how to find your niche, what to do when the niche chooses you, and when you know it's the right time to center it.

Emails & Correspondence

Is your inbox a dumpster fire? there are shortcuts and infrastructure you can put in place to deter time wasters, eliminate booking barriers, and streamline the whole process from inquiry to IRL.

Creating Ads

in a post-backpage era, where the F%&# do we find clients? we talk about the various ad resources, directories, and online venues to connect with clientele, and go into detail on what makes an excellent advertisement.

Vetting & Safety

Safety is paramount in this business. We'll share our own processes for screening, learn how to write reference requests, and get a little Nancy Drew on the internet to ensure our sessions go smoothly.

Negotiation

What does a professional negotiation look like pre session versus mid session. How do you account for the unaccountable?

Asking For What You Want

When's the last time you asked for, and received something you really wanted? We'll help you setup a framework of direct and indirect asks to put you on the road to success.

Common Newbie Mistakes

We've all had them, we've all heard them. Learn about the all too common pitfalls that may piss off other Pros, harm clients, or just be downright embarrassing.

When Sessions Go Wrong

Better to plan to fail than fail to plan, amiright? No matter how much you plan or prepare, not every exchange will go as planned. From no shows to undisclosed health conditions to vengeful ex-wives. In this section, we will discuss the common adversities you may face as well as how to handle the unexpected.

Marketing, Branding & Social Media

Some call it the necessary evil to the business, but how you present and market yourself is the first line of battle for any Pro-Dom/me these days. With an everchanging social media landscape, your marketing needs to be adaptable - just like you!

Getting The Clients You Want

Fantasize about kidnapping scenes but it's just a barrage of foot requests in you inbox? Learn how to attract more of the clientele that you vibe with.

Culture, Etiquette & Social Proof

Just because you're newer doesn't mean you're any less welcome or embraced by the space and community. Learn how to navigate relationships amongst peers and build reputation.

First Time Sessions For Idiots

This is for those clients who don't know what they want specifically or how to get there. By teaching you your way around bullshittng a session for your own benefit, you'll be ready to tackle any session physical or mental where the client can be satisfied and you can learn about their needs while maintaining safety for both of you.

Maintaining Client Relationships & The Role Of Regulars

Regulars are most folks' bread and butter. How do you keep the relationships fresh and exciting while also maintaining boundaries?

Cash-flow Post Session

What is passive income and how do I make it? What can I do outside of sessions to keep the money rolling in?

Money Talks

An honest discussion about rates and why "charge what you deserve" is bullshit. We face income inequality head on, tackle rate-shame and stigma, and address our collective emotional attachments to the numbers in our bank accounts.

Aftercare

What does aftercare look like in a professional setting. What is Top Drop and how to accommodate for it.

Finance & Infrastrucutre

How do you do taxes? Where do you store your money? and what to avoid when you're looking to legitimize your business as a business.

Write your awesome label here.

Looking for more of a
Self Study?

Purchase a physical copy of our 180+ page workbook in this self guided version of our Bootcamp!

Frequently asked questions

When is the next live Baby Dom/me/mx Bootcamp?

We have in person Bootcamps twice a year (one and NYC and rotating cities) but the online version is only the pre-recorded one!

Are 7DOD classes captioned?

Yes! Recorded 7DOD classes all have closed captioning options you can turn on. All live classes are live-captioned via Zoom as well.

How long do I have access to each course?

If you’ve bought a course outright, you have lifetime access. If you have a membership your access lasts as long as your membership is active.

Is this just for Pros?

While all of our presenters are Pros, our students have a wide range of interests, experiences and kinks. Pros, lifestylers, kink-curious, clients, allies, researchers, and fetishists have all enjoyed our classes

BDBC Overview

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Week 2
What’s In A Name
Face In & Face Out
Finding Your Niche & Online Persona

Week 3
Emails & Correspondence
Creating Ads
Vetting & Safety

Week 5
When Sessions Go Wrong
First Time Sessions For Idiots

Week 6
Marketing, Branding & Social Media (without losing your sanity)
Getting The Clients You Want
Culture, Etiquette, & Social Proof

Week 8
Money Talks
Aftercare

7 Days of Domination Headmistresses & Guest Instructors

Boss Lola Jean and Mistress Shayla Lange
+ SPECIAL GUESTS

About

Headmistresses Lola Jean and Shayla Lange have been throwing kink education events since 2017 - they've taught hundreds of folks, and helped dozens of folks launch their SW careers.